She noticed the girl sitting there by herself. 

How sad, she thought, that girl will never know love and friendship, companionship and warmth.  That girl is destined to be alone her whole life.  What a waste of a life. To have so much time and not to find love.  Finding love is the goal for each of us as we sojourn on this rock.  What a pity.

Then she looked a little closer at the girl and realized she was looking in a mirror.

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She’s fine! She determined right then about the girl in the mirror.  What a fighter and survivor.  She is doing just fine and doesn’t need your pity.