Thicker than Water

If you have been alive for more than a minute, you might have heard this saying a time or two: blood is thicker than water. If you have, you are nodding your head. If you haven’t, let me explain. This has become the obligatory theme of families suggesting that a family member should always take precedence over anyone else. Family should always come first! Family should be above everyone else! I might have already lost a reader or two that might have experience this is not always a truth to adhere to. In a perfect world, this would be a fundamental truth. But you and I both know this is not a perfect world. It has become more of a you choose your family for the most part. So it might surprise you, as it did me, the original saying and meaning of this adage.

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You will not persuade me otherwise

Social media has been abuzz reminding me the television show Friends (NBC) started its run 30 years ago and aired its final episode May 2004 – 20 years ago. I would guess that with syndication, it has never been off the air in the last 20 years. I know I have rewatched it when it used to come on every night at 9:00. Mainly just because it was there. With it streaming on Max and other options, new generations are now watching it. But they just don’t understand.

September has long been associated with the a few things.  Football season.  Fall (or Autumn depending on your geographic location and/or faux sophistication), the traditional school year start, and most important, the beginning of the original television show season.  That last one was definitely a big one for me.  I won’t go into too many embarrassing details but I would usually purchase a TV Guide or some other entertainment magazine and look at the schedule.  When were all the long awaited premieres?  In all fairness, the previous season usually ended mid-May and any show worth watching usually had something I had been waiting for some type of resolution for four months.  And back in those days, four months felt much longer than they do now.  Waiting from May until September for the answer to some evilly designed cliff-hanger should have developed a keen sense of patience in me.  Should have.  But somehow didn’t.  Of course, any promise in a finale was usually unwound in a premiere. Just to keep the story going another season because only finales got happiness (if you’re lucky). Premieres usually got more problems to solve. One of those storylines I waited for-EV-er on was the Ross and Rachel romance of Friends.

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When the hopeless romantic grows up…

Growing up, I was your typical hopeless romantic. If a story had a romance, I was there watching. Especially those geek/popular type story lines (Can’t Buy Me Love, 1987). And if a tv show had that romance plot with the “will they or won’t they” string along, I allowed myself to be strung along. Usually in frustration as I yelled at the tv screen, “Just get together already!” But it was like they couldn’t hear me or something because they wouldn’t. They just toyed with me. And sometimes they had the audacity to never get together! Since I no longer have live television and only do streaming, I have revisited some of those tv couples that led me along with their chemistry-filled teasing. I have to say, watching these with older eyes gives them a new perspective. Like red flags. So many red flags. Here’s a list of couples that made me watch and how I feel about them now.

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The truth of the matter…

I don’t have favorite people. Sure, there are some people I would rather spend more time with than others. There are some people who have traits and mannerisms that fall below my personal standard of annoyance. I’m not a snob. We all have an unspoken standard we measure people with. If a person happens to fall short of our measurement we fault them with a personality defect. What we are really saying though is that they didn’t meet our standard of non-annoyance. It’s true. In the back of our mind we are always judging others to see if they “make the cut.” So, no I don’t have favorites but I do have people who are a constant in my life.

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As seen on TV (thank goodness only on tv)

It’s no secret I have wasted spent my fair share of time watching television.  In my younger days, I was a sucker for romance stories and watched a lot of clunkers that promised a spark of romantic chemistry between characters.  Now that I’m older, I have revisited or have attempted to revisit shows and movies I watched and loved as a youngster.  Many times I am left wondering ‘what was I thinking?’

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