by Elder Dallin H. Oaks
Below is the link to the General Conference talk by Elder Oaks. Between the link and here I share a few of my personal thoughts on the subject.
Missionary work has never been my forte. I have come to the conclusion it’s best to be a disciple of Christ first and if that invites others to learn more, so be it.
It’s not about increasing numbers or goals, it’s about inviting others to find a way of life. A way of life that hopefully brings me happiness. If it doesn’t, then what’s the point of inviting others anyway?
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