I grew up in a time when stalking and obsession were selling points for romantic plots. “Oh, look! He wore her down until she said yes. They were surely meant to be together.”

I now live in a time where even writing that sentence made my fingers cringe.

We have learned (hopefully) that stalking is not romantic. Overly obsessing on anything is not healthy. What were romance storylines are now creepy thriller plot lines.

So, to reiterate today’s stance: stalking is bad.

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